Saturday, 8 March 2008


Oddly enough, by Christmas time I had made a miraculous recovery from my devastating mystery illness. No-one was more surprised than me.

So, I have a little catching up to do after my long absence. Cast your mind back to New Year's Eve, if you will. The way in which I spent the day may cause you a little amusement.

My husband's family came to spend some time with us, over New Year - his family consisting of his mother, his younger sister and her husband, plus their son, aged 8. On New Year's Eve most of the members of our combined families fancied a walk, which my husband and I had done in the summer and enjoyed very much. My middle son was working, so could not join in, but my youngest son went along and so did my husband. At the last minute, my eldest son and his girlfriend decided to go too, taking their newly acquired rescue dog.

I opted to keep my mother-in-law company, as always, as she suffers from arthritis and has limited mobility. My husband suggested that she and I should drive out and meet up with them at the pub', about halfway round the walk, the idea being that we would all have a drink, they would continue with the walk and we would drive back to prepare a late buffet lunch.

I duly drove out to the pub' at about 1pm, we both splashed out on a mineral water (I was driving, she was on medication!) and settled down to await the arrival of the walkers. Eventually, my husband and brother-in-law appeared, explaining that they couldn't come in, because dogs were banned from the premises. My mother-in-law could not go to sit outside, because she was afraid that the cold air would cause the return of her neuralgia and I didn't want to leave her on her own, so we continued to sit inside, whilst everyone else sat outside!

My mother-in-law, who is 80 years old and hard of hearing, asked where the walkers were going next. I explained that they had to walk along the road to the church, which I pointed out from the pub' window, across a few fields, through another village, then across some more fields, before being able to return to their cars.

I explained again a few minutes later, when she asked me the same question.

My sister-in-law came in and spent a few minutes with us and so did my youngest son. My husband came in to say that they were all about to leave. He said that they expected to be back home by 4pm. He held up 4 fingers to try to reinforce the meaning for his mother. After they had left, she asked my why my husband had held up 4 fingers. 'He means that they will be back home by about 4pm' I said.

'Where have they got to go?' she asked. I explained once more. She stood up and began to fasten up her coat. I wasn't quite ready to leave. I didn't intend to finish my mineral water, but I fancied a few more sips. I took another swallow, but my mother-in-law was obviously intent on returning to the house and stood waiting expectantly. I explained that I had to visit the ladies' and when I came out, she was already in the car park, heading for the car.

I drove home, not totally relishing the thought of wrestling with the mountain of food we needed to prepare for our late buffet lunch. As I drew up outside the house, about 20 minutes later, my mother-in-law said, with some amazement, 'Oh, they're not back yet, then?'


Sweet Irene said...

I came to you by way of Maggie May and I have read all of your older posts and have had a very good time doing so.

I hope you are completely recovered and that you will be posting again regularly, as I will be by every day to check.

You are a witty writer and have a good sense of humor, so please continue.

Hopefully, I'll see you around.


Mean Mom said...

Sweet Irene That must rate as my best comment, ever. I am touched - but, if you have read all of my posts, you will, no doubt, have gathered that already! Thank you.

Sweet Irene said...

I read your posts, but I didn't read your comments, sorry, forgot to pay attention to them.

I hope you are thinking of good subjects to write about. I always write notes to myself during the day. It helps. I have a leaky brain and forget things, I have recently read that this is due to Mumnesia.

A Mother's Place is in the Wrong said...

How lovely to have you back, Mean Mom - have been checking on you but gave up last week! Just as you were returning. Welcome! :) M xx

Mean Mom said...

sweet irene Yes, I am in creative blogging mode, at the moment. I just have to make sure that I do not spend more time in my virtual world, than the real world. It is easy to get carried away.

a mother's place is in the wrong
Thanks for sticking with me. I've been in a dark place to be honest. I dislike the darkness of winter. Thanks for your welcome back. It means a lot.